I once dated this girl who had brown eyes, but when she got tired they would turn green, greyish. I had never met someone with such features – and I still haven’t. But you can imagine that someone like me, who experiences strange things, would be fascinated by such an interesting fact. The color of her eyes was just a funny, intriguing thing. More importantly, at some point she told me about her ESP-experiences (Extra Sensitory Perception), and she struck me with something that surprised me completely.

Betrayed

The first time we met, I was completely drawn to her. I guess it was mutual, because we kissed on the first date. She had this energy in which I wanted to stay all the time – back then I wasn’t aware yet of this kind of dynamics, by the way. Somehow she reminded me of my dad, whom I trusted completely as a kid until he broke my trust once or twice. I still loved him, but something had changed at some point. And I guess it was some kind of pattern I had to face. Like my dad she behaved in a way that I felt betrayed, but in her case: time after time. It was frustrating, but afterwards I was able to see some similarities.

Deeper Level

She was also the girl who triggered me in such a way, that I had to think of the girl next door of my childhood. That was a different story, but as an empath I want to point out that you sometimes can get triggered – you sense something at a deeper level – because the person you meet, might have had a similar experience as someone else you have met. Subconsciously you recognize the resemblance. And even though I didn’t ask her about a possible same trauma, there were some signs that she might have experienced the same thing. Like pushing me away, showing some suspicious behaviour, and some things she had told me about her brother.

My Ex

As mentioned before, at some point she told me about her ESP-experiences. Short, but interesting cases. But what finally struck me the most, were two things she told me about myself. And I fully denied it. The first thing she told me, was that I still loved my ex-girlfriend, even though I had told her that I felt so much better off without her, there in Spain (in fact, it was me who had initiated the break-up). The only reason why I told her about my ex, was because of a little workshop I gave to her and her friends – a motivational one. But the Spanish girl was persistent: “You still love her.”

My Country

The second thing she told me: “You will go back to The Netherlands.” My home country. I denied that prediction even more. I loved being in Spain – I had never felt better. I could picture myself perfectly happy, for the rest of my life, in that beautiful country. I was even laughing about it. But she said: “Well, I have got my ESP, I can feel it.” Well, I know about ESP, but both things couldn’t be true, so I told myself.

Soulmate

Two years later I found myself actually back in The Netherlands. Partly because of the circumstances, partly because I wanted to. She was right about it. And although I thought I had fully closed this chapter of my life with my ex-girlfriend, one of my soulmates, I had to dive a bit more in our relationship, in order to let her fully go. Guess even clairvoyant empaths can have blind spots too. And some of them can have their eye colour changed, in order to see more clearly. Wink, wink.